A personal note: This blog usually explores my creative side – stories, art, the pieces of me that come alive after hours.
But today I’m sharing something from my daytime self.
Because sometimes our different lives teach each other unexpected lessons.
I see what others miss.
Years of leading tech teams taught me this: what feels like weird habits are actually useful skills. Here’s what I learned the hard way:
First, I spot hidden links. It’s not that I’m smart – my brain just connects dots differently. When others see one broken thing, I see how it affects everything else.
Second, I go deep and act fast. Most people do one or the other. But I dive into tough problems and pop back up with quick fixes. Each deep look makes the next quick decision better.
Third, I build strong bonds with few people instead of weak ones with many. Like having three close friends instead of fifty acquaintances. Information flows faster this way.
Fourth, I fix whole systems, not just single problems. Like a doctor who treats your whole body, not just your cough. Every solution has to work with everything else.
Last, my mind runs on multiple tracks. While fixing code, I’m also thinking about people and future problems. It’s tiring but worth it.
These aren’t special powers. They’re just tools I built because I had to. Like a chef’s well-used knives or a mechanic’s trusted wrench set.
In today’s messy tech world, seeing how everything fits together isn’t just helpful – it’s necessary.

“Pattern recognition in progress:
Sticky note #47: Remember to remember what this sticky note was about
Sticky note #48: Put all scattered thoughts in one place
Sticky note #49: Where did I put the sticky note about organizing sticky notes?”
This image is generate using AI while lacing up running shoes. Seemed fitting – when you stare at patterns all day, sometimes the best ones emerge from chaos. Back after my pre-work creative recharge loop around the park.
[P.S. For those following my fiction hints – yes, these insights might be showing up in my next story. Keep an eye out for a certain dream technician who sees patterns others miss…]


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