Author. Rider. Explorer.



Come along as I unpack the colorful chaos of life through heartfelt stories and real talk. From gut-busting laughs to ugly cries, wild dreams to secret fears, we’ll explore the moments that make us human. Together, let’s celebrate the highs, learn from the lows, and find magic in the everyday.

Escaping the Time Trap

I didn’t even have to think about mine too hard: thinking about the past and worrying about the future.

It’s a common trap many of us fall into – spending precious hours of our day lost in thoughts that serve no productive purpose. We replay past events, wondering “what if?” or agonize over potential future scenarios that may never come to pass.

The ghosts of our past traumas haunt us like specters, their cold fingers reaching through time to paralyze us in the present, turning minutes into hours of unproductive rumination.

This mental time travel robs us of the present moment, where life actually happens. It’s ironic that in trying to make sense of our past or prepare for our future, we end up wasting the very time we’re trying to optimize.

Breaking free from this cycle isn’t easy, but it’s worth the effort. For me, a significant step in breaking free from the past was writing the Road Theory book, which you can find out about here (Exciting News: My Debut Book, Road Theory, is Now Available!). While I’m not completely free yet, I’m reclaiming my time one step at a time.

Channeling my reflections into productive outlets was very transformative. It doesn’t have to be writing for you. Any form of art, or pursuing a passion project, finding ways to process our thoughts constructively can help us move forward.

Daily writing prompt
How do you waste the most time every day?